30 April, 2015

One becomes many!


It was one year since we planted one sapling of banana, which has now produced six other saplings and a bunch of bananas. The walking track, which Anna and I use for our evening walks begins where these plants have formed a cluster ready for transplanting now.

So beginning our evening walk with this in sight reminds us of the mission in life. 

Yesterday, our domestic helper told us that, it was good we planted some saplings of banana last year because we have now enough to transplant to other sites. 

I hope we all take time to look at our life as an opportunity to do something which has the potential to bear fruits. 

It is now three years we arrived to live in  this cottage with an acre of land around the house. We are surprised the way the land yields fruits when we rest after sowing or planting! 

I was listening to a medical student late into the evening yesterday, who told me that he is discovering that he is given the opportunity to study medicine to share in the pain of those who would come to him for medical attention. 

I wish there would be many in heath care, who would convey an approach of 'other-centredness' in attitude and work! A colleague told me yesterday that, 'when we think of others, we feed our own growth'.  

M.C.Mathew( text and photo) 

28 April, 2015

Flowers too speak!


This bunch of flowers was outside the room where I was staying for a week end. I walked passed this bunch  of flowers a few times each day. It was only when I was reviewing the photos. I noticed that this bunch of flowers was in the shape of a heart! All the while the flowers were reaching out to me with the message of love. I missed receiving it! It made me aware that I was pre-occupied even whileI looking at the flowers.

The sense of presence is a discipline that comes only by practice. We can live through each day missing all the messages from around us because of our hurry or mental distance from realities around us.

To be present is to be fully alive with an awakened consciousness! One way of monitoring the sense of presence is by having few minutes of recollection a few times each day! The recollection time is a silent period when we return to our inner consciousness, the very ground of our being, who is God. Such occasions of God consciousness would grant us better sight, insight and foresight!

M.C.Mathew(text and photo) 

26 April, 2015

Nepal's loss, a humanitarian crisis!


As more disturbing news reach us about the colossal loss and human suffering in Nepal, there is an unanswered question about the causation of earthquake. The geologists explained it as earth's way of releasing its energy! 

It was during the morning walk today, I noticed that this banana bunch was hanging because the stem caved in due to its weight. There was no external support given to the stem to support the weight of the banana bunch which would probably weigh about 10 kilograms.  

The earth is our place of habitation and we have several natural calamities that compromise our wellness. 

It looks like that there is transitoriness to all that make our lives comfortable. When the hundreds in Kathmandu valley would live in tents for months before they can have their house restored, we would witness the human resilience which a unique mark of humans. 

It is the time when an external support is most needed for our fellow beings in Nepal. Otherwise the weight of their own burdens would weigh them down and cripple their recovery.  We in India are their immediate physical neighbours- we can become their emotional neighbours through our acts of kindness!

MC.Mathew(text and photo)

25 April, 2015

Kathmandu Valley tonight!


Ever since I heard the news about the earthquake at the mid day, I have been trying to get in touch with people I know in the EHA and Mission to Nepal to get some news about the state of affairs at the Patan and Pokhra hospitals in Nepal. I have not been able to get in touch and do not have any news about the extent of damage to the hospitals. 

From the news in the media, thousands are in the streets without water, food, electricity, conveyance, etc. 

The government of India is proactive and moving its resources to respond and mitigate suffering. I wish there will be several medical teams who would volunteer to go to Nepal as doctors specialised in polytrauma and intensive care would be of needed in large numbers!

The long term needs of people who lost their houses would be even more demanding on the local government. Its capability would have many limitations! I wish medical fraternity in India and organizations like churches would come forward to participate financially in rebuilding the broken lives!

M.C.Mathew(text and photo) 

24 April, 2015

An offering for the farmers!


Summer is the time, when the plants look least refreshing!

However the temple flowers decorate the otherwise barren look in most gardens. The temple flowers display an array of colours! In fact the colours are most pronounced in the thick of the summer as if it is the summer heat which makes them more pretty to look at!

As I took a walk in a garden recently and saw these sights, I kept thinking about the impact of circumstances on our lives. 

As there is lot of focus in the media on the extreme challenges the farmers face, due to damage to the crops due to hailstorm and rain, I was reminded of the visit to the garden. The gardener watches over the plants and trees. The farmer plants and waits for the crops. When his waiting ends in loss of the crops,  it is the family who is used into debt and deprivation. The agrarian crisis is distressing and pushing people into desperation. 

I wonder, whether there is a neighbourly attitude towards our farmers! If it is a visible and acute calamity, there is often thoughtful human responses of care and support! But when it is a silent and chronic crisis, we do not even feel it to respond! 

Think of the farmer who is our nearest neighbour. Is there something we can do to that family to support them through their crisis ! 

I wish every congregation during the Sunday worship service would raise an offering from its members to create a farmer's fund to help them! 

M.C.Mathew(text and photo)

23 April, 2015

Take Squint seriously !

Many babies till about three months can have squinting eyes. Once they begin to focus and track objects with their eyes between three months and four months, the alignment of the eyes gets well established to provide binocular vision. But if the squint persists beyond six months, it is necessary to consult  an eye specialist.  

If squinting eye does not receive medical attention,  it can lead to a laze eye status where one the the eyes does not participate in visual engagement.

From my experience, parents and doctors seem to ignore or wait too long  in the hope that this would resolve on its own. In fact, the opposite can happen, leading to delayed maturation of the visual functions, which affect the learning and processing skills  of children.

Take squint seriously in children and get medical attention. Often all that would be needed would be exercises for the eyes or correction of refractive error by wearing spectacles. Sometimes corrective surgery would be needed followed by regular follow up with  the Ophthalmologist, developmental neurologist and Occupational therapist. 

The outcome in children is good if  one eye did not suffer from amblyopia due to delayed treatment!

M.C.Mathew(text and photo)  

21 April, 2015

Daffney waits!


I am intrigued by Daffney and some of her habits!

Now that Anna is away at Ludhiana, Daffney gets her breakfast little later than she is used to. When she sees me with the plate in the courtyard, she would look intently at me and patiently wait till I stroke and serve the breakfast. It is a custom for her to come after me after that to invite me to run  and play with her for a while. When she has had that time, she would return to her kennel and take time to eat her meal leisurely. She would be most pleased if I can sit in the verandah and watch her eat.   

Normally, being a beagle, she is in a hurry, impulsive and scent driven! But when she eats, she is patient and content!

I realise that we humans too need unhurried times when we can slow down, wait and stay content! Daffney trusts and waits of her food! How I wish I too can carry the  spirit of trusting and waiting habitually!

M.C.Mathew(text and photo)