06 October, 2026

The given earth and its fruits!






I noticed the Mynah birds arriving one after another to forage in the lawn in front of our cottage. They find their feed in the grass! 

This sight brought an awareness about the giving earth ! The earth feeds its inhabitants. Tis consciousness brought a regardful view of what we receive from the earth. 

The bird calls from early in the morning from all around the garden awaken us to a consciousness of this cycle of life on earth. The giving earth sustains life on earth! 


A butterfly sting on the Rambutan tree in the garden close to the lawn above, brought another consciousness about life! The butterflies are born, fed and sustained by plant life! 


When I noticed the rainbow from our garden yesterday, I was even more awakened to sense how the earth receives its rainfall seasonally to sustain life on earth.  

A passage from the book of Psalms in the Bible (24:1-2) came to my mind while experiencing these sights in front of me: "The earth is the Lord's and all it contains, the world and those who dwell in it. For He has founded it upon the seas, and established it upon the rivers".

We "who dwell in the shelter of the most high will abide in the shadow of the Almighty" (Psalm 91:1), is an affirming and uplifting promise ! 

For me, this experience was an occasion akin to an epiphany! 


M.C.Mathew(text and photo)









 

05 October, 2026

The wellness quotient!




This sixty-six years old wall clock in our drawing room, needs mechanical winding every week. Anna and I were away for ten days and on return I found that the clock had stopped. After rewinding, I noticed the clock returning to its regular rhythm of movement every minute and chiming every half an hour. 

What keeps the movements of the pendulum and the hour and minute hands to show the time, is dependent on the rewinding of two springs, one for the dial and the other for the chyme, each week. The pendulum moves 72 times each minute on both directions horizontally.  

The clock functions when it is wound every week! It keeps time and chymes for the benefit of others! The clock symbolises receiving and giving.


I watched a cyclist giving a ride to his friend on its back on a busy street. I noticed him stopping when the vehicles were approaching from both sides. He was protective and cautious. He navigated the cycle circumspectly and thoughtfully! He turned a bicycle into a mode of transport of him and his friend! The cycle looked strong enough and well kept to carry two people! The cyclist trusted his bicycle to offer a ride to his friend! He knew his cycle and its roadworthiness. 

The clock and cycle above functioned normally because they were regularly attended to for them to be able to function optimally!  

When I started the car yesterday after ten days, the pressure gauge in the instrument cluster on the dash board warned me of low air pressure in all the tyres. The car needed attention for it to remain safe for a drive. 

It was while watching the interview of two lady doctors, working in north India,  one a surgeon and another a community physician, I was moved by a sense of mission they carry, to take care of the poor in the rural communities. They spoke about 'keeping the people well to work and earn their livelihood'! Their emphasis and resolve to do their little to support people to be well to live and work resonated within me. 

Following an epidemic of Measles in 1977 in and around Sevagram, when some young children died and many were admitted with complications in the hospital, Dr Sushila Nayyar, the director asked me a question, ' What if you trained  in Paediatrics to help children'?  It was that question which led me start training in Paediatrics in 1978. It was during that training, I came across Prof A.M.Sur conducting a weekly clinic for children with Neuro-developmental needs in the Occupational therapy department of the hospital. His remark, 'children suffer silently and parents are helpless' had a profound impact on me. This remark resounded within me during forty years of my involvement with Neuro-developmentally challenged children and their parents. 

It was Anna who proposed in 1983 that we state our intent as 'Taking sides' when the Child Development Centre was established at Chennai. 

We keep all the equipment we use in daily life well and trim. 

However, paying attention to our body to remain well to experience fullness of life, is still to become a reality for most people! 

In the village where I live, the two new places that people now visit are an exercise parlour and a bar. The people who visit the bar outnumber those who visit the exercise parlour. 

This is the reality- our choices determine our destination !

The co-pilot who assaulted the pilot in the FlyDubai flight last week, chose intentionally to do harm ! 

The goodness within each of us offers wellness for ourselves and others! This goodness within us needs nurture to grow to bear fruits! 

That is one reason, why, the war initiated by Russia or the USA or Israel offers no restoration of goodness. 

The Pope Leo, in his recent prayer referred to peace as a gift of God and fruit of love for neighbours! 


M.C.Mathew(text and photo)









02 October, 2026

A small bird with distinctive features!




This morning sight in our garden of Sunbirds coming to feed on nectar is a a pleasant sight. On arrival in the green, it visits its regular flight stations and then arrives at the flowering plants searching for nectar. These flight movements are swift and it took a long time for me to learn to be alert and prompt to capture them through the lens. Even while feeding on nectar, they move and are not stationary enough to give sufficient time to focus by using the manual mode of the camera. 

The few photos I have of them in some measure of focus provide a lot of information about the body care routines they follow. The features are dry and well groomed to give these birds an unusual appearance of beauty with multiple shades of colours. 

A small bird but with many distinctive features! 

Our good habits, practices and thoughtful ways are what would make us distinct to offer a message of mindfulness towards others! 


M.C.Mathew(text and photo)



01 October, 2026

The Quiet presence for doing good!

 




On some mornings, the garden around our cottage is silent with no bird calls. The above three photos are of one such morning! The quiet presence! That is one way of being present! The hidden presence! 


The Barbet was later seen in the fruit tree!

How they live finding their daily needs! 

This is a contrast to the stress of daily living many of us carry with us!

When we live stressed we become less mindful of others. I experienced a thoughtful act of kindness from an auto-rikshaw driver yesterday. I was looking for an ATM to draw some money in a town that I was visiting. With the ATM that I went to, not being functional I felt at a loss. The auto driver, seeing my difficult situation, offered to take me to another ATM about a kilometre away. He is a college student who drives an auto in the evening to support his family. He supports his mother and two sisters who too are studying! He was effusive, helpful and courteous with no signs of stressful life experiences he goes through. He returned half of the money I offered to him for the auto charge. He needed persuasion to accept the whole amount! 

His is a quiet presence, doing good as much as he is able to. He was not self absorbed in the demands of stressful living he encounters. 

I returned from this experience, refreshed by the reminder of goodness of people from whom we receive in surprising ways!  

Being present to do good! 


M.C.Mathew (text and photo)






27 September, 2026

Returning home burdened !






All the above photographs on the road in the late afternoon,  in a rural area tell us the routines of the people 


I noticed this man above walking unsteadily with a bag on his back, crossing the leg with each step at the ankle joint. As a developmental physician, it took me on an inner journey of his probable  personal difficulties in mobility! 

Each photo above tells a story of their lives! 



When I noticed the birds engaged in a fight in the air and a Butterly looking injured in its wings, I became even more aware of the stress and strife of life that each person encounters in the daily journey of life! 

I wish more and more people think of the neighbours as in need and live missionaly!

Our altruistic way of life would become pathfinders for others in need! 

M.C.Mathew(text and photo)



 




26 September, 2026

Missing birds !





These old photographs remind me of the missing birds in our garden!

With change of the environment and the paddy field beside the stream converted now with saplings of Rubber trees, many birds find the place inhospitable!

Yes, we miss something when we disturb the habitat of birds!

M.C.Mathew(text and photo)

24 September, 2026

Giving presence!




The Rambutan trees in our garden after their season off fruiting, give new shoots to grow for the season of fruiting by April-May next year. The cycle of growth and fruiting is the natural rhythm to these trees. The sight of the different shades of the green make the trees ornamental to behold. During the fruiting season squirrels and birds came to feed. Now they come for their shelter during the day and night.  In fact some birds use the trees as rain shield! 

The trees live purposefully! They live during their seasons, bringing their gifts to the garden. This is also the season when the Rambutan trees shed their aging leaves. Our domestic helper gathers a heap of dry leaves for the compost pit from underneath each tree every day. The tree gives away the leaves to become manure to the garden. 

The trees offer a giving presence! 

I find this revealing! When our gardener was pruning one tree as its branches were drooping, he remembered the fruits he gathered from those branches a few weeks ago. A tree suffers even while giving! 

Its giving habit does not earn an entitlement to be protected from pruning. The pruning although makes the tree suffer a loss, offers protection and growth in the long run! 

The message the Rambutan trees bring to me is their mission of giving presence! 

That is a theme to meditate upon! 

Giving is a gift of love!


I received this in the WhatsApp message from a dear friend a few days ago. Knowing my habit of brewing coffee in the morning, this person sent this to greet me in the morning! 

This was a reminder to me of the thoughtful ways we can be giving to encourage others.  

Giving is the lifeline of living! 


M.C.Mathew (text and photo)