06 September, 2026

The breeding plumage !




I noticed a colourful bird flying into the thick foliage of a teak wood tree in our garden at day break today. It took a while to spot it to be an Indian pond heron in its striking plumage with dark maroon-brown back feathers, buff-brown head and neck details different from the usual.  I found help from Google which suggested it to be the a breeding attire of  a pond heron. Both male and female birds change their complexion during the feeding season. This change in their look from a dull earthy brown and grey look to a rich dark brown back with white plumes on the head are striking. 

The above tree being beside a stream, I shall look around to see if the bird would build a nest here or in other trees! They feel comfortable to breed closer to human habitation! 

That is worth looking and waiting for! 


M.C.MaTHEW(TEXT AND PHOTO)

The becoming of Self!





 On this Sunday morning,  our garden greeted us with these sights that brought stories of their journey thus far and beyond!

The journey of becoming is a common journey humans share with the flora and fauna! 

In the words of Carl Jung, the becoming of ourselves from a being a persona to individuation to be our Self is through a journey of shadows and integrating the unconscious Anima, the feminine in the masculine gender and Animus, the masculine in the feminine gender ! The anima connects a man to his emotion, intuition, and creativity. The animus connects a woman to logic, reason, decisiveness and action.  

The flowers in their fullness evolve through a formative process over weeks from being a bud!

This came as an invitation to my soul this morning with a renewed appeal,  as I am on a journey to be an elder in the seventh decade of my life, according to the eight stages of the psychosocial  development theory proposed by Erik Erikson! 

Yes, becoming is to grow into full humanhood and feeling anchored in God !

M.C.Mathew(text and photo)

A festival of White in nature!














The twenty five flowers above, recent and mostly form our garden appear in this post to share my resistance to the idea of 'one nation, one election' that the Prime Minister of india is currently pursuing to enforce upon the nation! 

During the process of revising the electoral rolls for elections, it is now known that nearly one fourth of people are missing from the electoral roll in New Delhi. Similar omissions in large numbers are being reported from other states. 

In a hurry to push conducting the national elections and the 22 state elections concurrently, which has never happened in the 75 years of the democratic election process in India, the irregularities and questionable practices are overlooked by the government of India. With the current central government having three years more to govern, the mindless pursuit to introduce the policy of concurrent elections for the state governments and the central government is viewed by political commentators as an attempt to legitimise an autocratic approach to governance. 

All the twenty five white flowers exist in different hues of white, giving us a message of the spectrum of shades just in one colour! 

The nation of India is just a confluence of people of different cultures, languages, religions, traditions and socio-economic status. The 'double engine governance' which the Prime Minister  advocates involves the same political party governing the states as well as the central government. There is a strong feeling that if the state government is ruled by a government of a different political party such states get less allotment of funds and new projects. The participatory planning through the Planning commission to develop the states was replaced by another body with central control, by the current political party which governs the country since it came to power for the first time in 2014. 

Let me present the hues of the white colours to celebrate the festival of the white as a metaphor of the normal diversity that exists among humans even in one country! 

I feel pained that the  current president of the United States of America has divided the people of America as migrants and natives! While America came into being as a nation of migrants, migrants remained welcome and 'central to the thought of America'. The Israeli leadership got the sinister idea of eliminating the Palestinian presence from the example of the ugly path the President of America practices! 

The shades of white come from the differences in the colour pigments in the flowers as well as the way the sunlight allows the pigments to radiate the light! 

We as humans are different from each other, but each of us has something deep within us, which we resonate when the sunshine of God's presence comes upon us! 

We are people of similar origin on a similar journey towards a common destiny, although we live our lives differently creating a hue of colours of culture, race and nationalities!


M.C.Mathew(text and photo)




05 September, 2026

A father's formative initiative!


I noticed this in a children's park and felt moved by the Father's choice to play with his two children ! 

All three of them have a delightful face, a sign of presence and engagement at an endearing level! 

Such experiences in a family bring transformational impact in father-children relationships!

M.C.Mathew(text and photo)

Flowers, Fruits, and Birds !









 


The sights in our garden bring a refreshing and uplifting look! Each season of the year brings a distinct feature and rhythm which continues silently!

This brings a sense of awareness of the gift of life nature offers, as its bounty for humans to cherish and live on! 

This alerts us about the eco-friendly attitude we need to keep our environment compatible and sustainable for all flora and fauna! 

M.C.Mathew(text and photo)




04 September, 2026

The ease of living !





The certainty of each day! 

The Sunbird and the Bulbul indicated comfort and confidence as they searched for their feed in our garden and found them! 

I had a conversation about the 'ease of living' with a friend ! He talked about the changes in the attitude and outlook to life in the current context. He being from an engineering background told me how the conversation evolved to focus on success, by the time he was in the final year among his friends. It was to secure a place for management education and seek to find a place in a large company to go through the internship in preparation for securing a permanent position. For most professionals this permanent position lasts for around five years when they seek for changes to seek for better perks and benefits. He mentioned to me of this natural course for the majority of professionals. According to him, a visible position of leadership in the market place is the aspiration of the most! 

The advertisement of a costly car read like this: 'a matching car for your status'! Another advertisement for a flat in a premium housing estate was this: ' You are known by where you live'! A bank lured people to take loan by saying: ' We charge you no interest for the loan in the first three months'! 

The counter message of these, is from birds in our garden was, 'join us to live freely'! The birds are certain to find their food and shelter each day! Even when they migrate during different seasons, they live well! 

The birds tell me each day about the ease of living! Anna and I were talking yesterday, about the sense of wellness we experience when we lead a quieter life in our cottage! When we reach out to a few people each day on phone, we feel connected by the ups and downs of life people encounter! 

The flash flood that took away land, property and lives of people in Nepal ten days ago, is a message of the unforeseen experiences in life! 

We cannot predict or overcome such situations in life!

However to be able to live with a sense of wellness, peace and hope each day is the greatest gift we can offer to ourselves and our families. For the birds in our garden, the flowers and the feeding station are the certainties because of which they have a sense of ease in their daily rhythm. 

The sunbird found nectar and the Bulbul a mouthful of feed !

We live well when we have an interior comfort of contentment! 

M.C.Mathew(text and photo)