When I noticed the rainbow from our garden yesterday, I was even more awakened to sense how the earth receives its rainfall seasonally to sustain life on earth.
Waymarks on a Journey
06 October, 2026
The given earth and its fruits!
When I noticed the rainbow from our garden yesterday, I was even more awakened to sense how the earth receives its rainfall seasonally to sustain life on earth.
05 October, 2026
The wellness quotient!
This sixty-six years old wall clock in our drawing room, needs mechanical winding every week. Anna and I were away for ten days and on return I found that the clock had stopped. After rewinding, I noticed the clock returning to its regular rhythm of movement every minute and chiming every half an hour.
What keeps the movements of the pendulum and the hour and minute hands to show the time, is dependent on the rewinding of two springs, one for the dial and the other for the chyme, each week. The pendulum moves 72 times each minute on both directions horizontally.
The clock functions when it is wound every week! It keeps time and chymes for the benefit of others! The clock symbolises receiving and giving.
I watched a cyclist giving a ride to his friend on its back on a busy street. I noticed him stopping when the vehicles were approaching from both sides. He was protective and cautious. He navigated the cycle circumspectly and thoughtfully! He turned a bicycle into a mode of transport of him and his friend! The cycle looked strong enough and well kept to carry two people! The cyclist trusted his bicycle to offer a ride to his friend! He knew his cycle and its roadworthiness.
The clock and cycle above functioned normally because they were regularly attended to for them to be able to function optimally!
When I started the car yesterday after ten days, the pressure gauge in the instrument cluster on the dash board warned me of low air pressure in all the tyres. The car needed attention for it to remain safe for a drive.
It was while watching the interview of two lady doctors, working in north India, one a surgeon and another a community physician, I was moved by a sense of mission they carry, to take care of the poor in the rural communities. They spoke about 'keeping the people well to work and earn their livelihood'! Their emphasis and resolve to do their little to support people to be well to live and work resonated within me.
Following an epidemic of Measles in 1977 in and around Sevagram, when some young children died and many were admitted with complications in the hospital, Dr Sushila Nayyar, the director asked me a question, ' What if you trained in Paediatrics to help children'? It was that question which led me start training in Paediatrics in 1978. It was during that training, I came across Prof A.M.Sur conducting a weekly clinic for children with Neuro-developmental needs in the Occupational therapy department of the hospital. His remark, 'children suffer silently and parents are helpless' had a profound impact on me. This remark resounded within me during forty years of my involvement with Neuro-developmentally challenged children and their parents.
It was Anna who proposed in 1983 that we state our intent as 'Taking sides' when the Child Development Centre was established at Chennai.
We keep all the equipment we use in daily life well and trim.
However, paying attention to our body to remain well to experience fullness of life, is still to become a reality for most people!
In the village where I live, the two new places that people now visit are an exercise parlour and a bar. The people who visit the bar outnumber those who visit the exercise parlour.
This is the reality- our choices determine our destination !
The co-pilot who assaulted the pilot in the FlyDubai flight last week, chose intentionally to do harm !
The goodness within each of us offers wellness for ourselves and others! This goodness within us needs nurture to grow to bear fruits!
That is one reason, why, the war initiated by Russia or the USA or Israel offers no restoration of goodness.
The Pope Leo, in his recent prayer referred to peace as a gift of God and fruit of love for neighbours!
M.C.Mathew(text and photo)
02 October, 2026
A small bird with distinctive features!
01 October, 2026
The Quiet presence for doing good!
On some mornings, the garden around our cottage is silent with no bird calls. The above three photos are of one such morning! The quiet presence! That is one way of being present! The hidden presence!
The Barbet was later seen in the fruit tree!
How they live finding their daily needs!
This is a contrast to the stress of daily living many of us carry with us!
When we live stressed we become less mindful of others. I experienced a thoughtful act of kindness from an auto-rikshaw driver yesterday. I was looking for an ATM to draw some money in a town that I was visiting. With the ATM that I went to, not being functional I felt at a loss. The auto driver, seeing my difficult situation, offered to take me to another ATM about a kilometre away. He is a college student who drives an auto in the evening to support his family. He supports his mother and two sisters who too are studying! He was effusive, helpful and courteous with no signs of stressful life experiences he goes through. He returned half of the money I offered to him for the auto charge. He needed persuasion to accept the whole amount!
His is a quiet presence, doing good as much as he is able to. He was not self absorbed in the demands of stressful living he encounters.
I returned from this experience, refreshed by the reminder of goodness of people from whom we receive in surprising ways!
Being present to do good!
M.C.Mathew (text and photo)
27 September, 2026
Returning home burdened !
All the above photographs on the road in the late afternoon, in a rural area tell us the routines of the people
26 September, 2026
Missing birds !
24 September, 2026
Giving presence!
I received this in the WhatsApp message from a dear friend a few days ago. Knowing my habit of brewing coffee in the morning, this person sent this to greet me in the morning!