Waymarks on a Journey
15 February, 2026
The growth trajectory!
The giving vocation!
The cashew tree in our garden is colourful to watch with cashew fruits in different stages of development.
The tree with its blossoms appearing in November has since been with young and ripening cashew fruits. The guava tree is also with ripening fruits. The squirrels feed on them.
A tree gives its fruits !
A plant gives its flowers and fruits.
The garden is a place where this giving is full expression!
I experienced how giving can be refreshing to receive! While visiting an ENT consultant recently, I experienced how the giving was spontaneous, warm and caring, in the way I was attended to. I felt that giving was with a desire to help, affirm and guide!
During two telephone calls yesterday, I experienced how both of them were truly giving by listening and guiding!
To give is to encourage and affirm!
The journey path that we choose in our lives can be sometimes met with unforeseen obstacles and demands. It is then a word in season or an act of kindness can make all the difference to someone who finds the going weary and draining!
When Anna and I returned home yesterday after a week of travel, It was special to experience the giving behaviour of Dulcie and Daphne. They wanted to stay close to us and hoovered around us with canine behaviour of affection! The giving behaviour is natural to them!
To live giving is a way of becoming present to others!
M.C.Mathew(text and photo)
Small, beutiful and elegant !
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Wellness within !
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From categorisation to wholeness !
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Silent dissent !
03 February, 2026
Remembering others who feel alone!
The Lilies have an origin, plant life and flowering stages!
I have had occasions in the recent weeks to come across biographical experiences of people in their youthful days, that reminded me about the way they responded to the opportunity to become present to others for an altruistic mission in life.
I came across a senior citizen in his eighties involved in designing a home care programme with a strong medical component for those who are home bound due to diseases which need regular monitoring. I remember how Dr William Cutting in his mid eighties popularised movement as a way to stay fit for senior citizens in Britain by publishing books and uploading videos.
Anna and I feel inspired by such examples of people, young and old in age, who see the needs of others as an opportunity to innovate and respond to make a difference in the community!
This way of living with 'consciousness of others' in mind is an inspiration for us.
When our garden is coloured by Lilies and Orchids blooming around our cottage, they silently bring this message to us, 'be giving'!
Life, living and leaning can be self centred or other centred!
There comes a time in every person's life when seeking after an exclusive pursuit of purpose for oneself creates a void or a longing to be inclusive!
A senior citizen who makes a round of telephone calls or sends messages every day to few people is helping others to live remembered and encouraged!
I found that as an inspiration!
That becomes a call to move out of our insular orbit to creating interface of contacts and relationships!
M.C.Mathew (text and photo)