28 May, 2020

A journey back !


Shantha working in Developmental Paediatrics and Chill Neurology brought me this collection of serving spoons made of coconut shell. My memory instantly went back to my childhood, when all the  cooking and serving were done by these spoons made of coconut shell. By the time I went to college, they got replaced by aluminium and later stainless steel spoons. I was seeing these spoons after about forty years. 

A neighbour of Shantha makes these for special purposes. I was glad for her to have brought this collection to me. 

It takes a lot of practice to make it, because it involves shaping the shell, cutting and smoothening the edges, attaching a neatly prepared handle form bamboo, etc. The coconut shells are normally used as firewood in many homes if they still have a fire place at home. I have seen coconut emporiums, where the shell is made in to boxes with a lid to keep small things like paper clips, pins, buttons, etc. Such boxes are used as decorative items on display in show cases. 

What fascinated me is that I can return to use these spoons at home and relive the history of cooking which I watched my grandmothers and mother did in their kitchens. Another memorial to lives that are close to me. 

Let me pay my tribute to this craftsman who creates a use for the coconut shell in the kitchen. Anything we use to cook a meal becomes part of us. So this craftsman also becomes part of our consciousness. He makes his living in his house, in a village, who might not know all about the memories he brings into our midst through the creations he makes! I feel grateful that there are people like this in our midst who keeps alive our memories!

M.C.Mathew(text and photo)


27 May, 2020

Weary look, but rich in aroma!





Some flowers in our garden have a subdued look, but their fragrance and colourfulness suffer no loss in the summer heat. The plants do suffer in the hot sun, but they are rooted in the soil rich with moisture and manure!

Anna and I dropped in to get a take away from an eatery yesterday,  normally popular and full of people. It had a deserted look and they had a reduced menu. They could not serve even what was mentioned in the display board as they did not have a cook who could prepare that item.

Anna needed an egg beater, as one she was using for twenty years is almost out of order. We went to six shops. None had it in their stock as the supply has been limited for the last three months due to locked down.

We dropped in to a plant nursery get some plants for our garden. They had a reduced variety unlike the usual.

We went to a grocery shop. The shelves had only a few items.

All these experiences on one evening made us aware of the stressful effect of the COVID 19, locked down, return of migrant workers to their home states, small and middle level business in misery and people in a sense of loss over what awaits them.

My colleagues, Susan and Shalini were active yesterday to plan to get in touch with families who have not had an opportunity to visit us in the last two months. Susan and Tinu were calling about ten families each day for the last few weeks, to enquire about their wellness and help them with some support or suggestions.  Now some plans are in place to give telephone consultation to all, Video-based to those who have access to it at their homes and set up and a video-based on line therapy programme for children who would need it. Usually the summer months are times when we reach out to more parents and plan for the developmental strategy for children. Although I too have been in touch with about five or so parents on phone or attend to the need of more families needs through the office, families and children feel bereft!

It is time when more is needed to bring comfort, hope, and cheer to families. It is a time when we need to generate more resources to sustain ourselves and offer more help to others. 

It is not a time to give up or step back. It is a time to go beyond our personal conveniences and gains and be fully involved in undergirding others with whatever is possible. 

Even our feeble or small or fragmented efforts can be a resource to bring wellness to others. During the Great Depression, in 1930's, some churches encouraged families to set apart a handful of rice each time they cooked rice. In one church, I was told recently, it gathered enough each week to support about hundred families in their neighbourhood. Small acts of kindness have a multiplying effect. 

I suspect, we too are at the brink of another devastating impact of economic recession, profound grief over loss of human lives,  emotional and physical exhaustion of health care workers, civil discord on account of hunger and starvation, crises in families over stressful livelihood, etc. It is a hugely demanding situation of this century! 

Each institution has to have a transition planning. Institutions exist for people in the neighbourhood. When we had three meetings in our department, where only half of our colleagues could be present due to locked down,  we got a sense of the urgency and intensity of the situation. 

St Paul spoke about being a 'sweet aroma' and  a 'fragrance' (2 cor 2:14-15) unto God. Our good deeds and acts of kindness would work towards that in this difficult time! 

M.C.Mathew(text and photo)





25 May, 2020

Friends in Christian Mission Hospitals- 6

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Dear Friends,

Greetings and good wishes as you make a difference through your being and doing! Anna and I remember and want to stay in touch with you because you are in places and responsibilities where you ’leaven’ the situation with your goodness and mindfulness. 


I happened to view the above painting in the web page, The Spirit of Justice by Daniel Maclise painted in 1850, on display in the Auckland Art Gallery. It was referred to by Irshad Rashid, in his article, ‘From behind the veil’ in The Hindu magazine section on page 8 of 24 May 2020. This article was about the ‘rationality of justice’.

There are several commentaries available on this painting. The painter was commissioned to create murals in the House of Lords, London on the theme, ‘Justice and Chivalry’ when it was rebuilt between 1834 and 1850. 

This painting corresponds to the same season when the painter was occupied with justice issues. This painting in my reflection portrays prince, princess, warrior, priest, ruler, teacher, arbitrator, prisoner, widow with her children, slave, master, etc. In the centre is the portrait of a tall person with a balance in equilibrium. The background is a mansion of opulence and affluence, which to me is the symbol of prosperity in to which the rulers of the world are lost. All of humanity is represented in this painting. 

The painting reminds us of  the  prophecy in Isaiah 11:4-5, ‘But with righteousness He will judge the poor, and decide with fairness for the afflicted of the earth… also righteousness will be the belt about His loins and faithfulness the belt about His waist’. The balance in the hand of the central figure in this painting alludes to this call to live justly and soberly, mindful of others in our midst, struggling with the burdens they are made to carry.

After reflecting on this painting, I turned to the newspaper. I found myself utterly confused and perplexed as well us hopeful, looking at the pictures in the Times of India of 24 May, 2020  






















On the left above is a photo of a migrant family with their earthly possessions walking along the rail line to reach home. A journey with all the pain of loss, grief uncertainty about their future! Do they walk into life or to the perils of the journey is anybody's guess!

On the other picture on the right is a team of Health care professionals in a tribal area conducting house to house visit, when senior citizens are banned from going out of their home due to restrictions imposed due to COVID 19m pandemic. The scene gives us some comfort of the humane spirit towards those who are marginalised and made to feel alienated!

What sustians all of us is the hope that Daniel Maclise portrayed through his paimitng in 1850. There is an assurance of fairness and justice. This is yet to be a relaity!

Each of you is a missionary in your place to ‘hasten the arrival of this reality of justice’! When you ‘reduce’ or deny your conveniences to ‘give away as much as you can’ for expressing this justice of love, I hope you would protect yourselves from exhaustion as the journey seems to be a long haul! 

We live at a time our neighbours need us most. At the same time to support each other in our network of mission hospitals in whatever way we can, because we protect each other from the 'weariness that sets in while doing good'!

Anna and I carry you in our hearts and send you our warm regards,

M.C.Mathew, 24.5.2020

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Dear Friends,   
   
Greetings and good wishes as you adjust to another two weeks of restrictions on account of COVID 19!

I noticed the three years old guava tree swayed in the wind at night and went to give it a support in the morning. As I kept watching the guavas in the tree, I noticed that most of them were in bunches. Just a few were in singles. That seems to be the natural pattern for the tree. We have another smaller guava tree which that too had a flowering pattern in pairs.

I went to bed yesterday after talking to a friend from a mission hospital, which is located in a small town and currently struggling to carry on due to several constraints. The hospital is struggling to provide facilities or services with a specialist trying to be a Paediatrician, Obstetrician and Surgeon. That cannot go on for too long to maintain the quality of service. Fortunately, this hospital gets visiting consultants from bigger mission hospitals for short periods of ten days to two weeks fairly regularly, because of which the hospital is just viable. 

There are many such stand alone hospitals, under pressure to innovate and adapt. This becomes intense during times such as this, where a pandemic is causing unsettlement in hospital services. The economic recession is paralysing the paying capacity of people who live in the margins of society. 

I remember reports and news from some bigger mission hospitals in some parts of India. who have been proactive in handholding some smaller mission hospitals by donating equipment, loaning doctors, nurses, technologists, administrators, etc. for short or longer periods, helping financially when there is a shortage, offering subsidised laboratory services, etc. This brought mutual benefits. The professionals who come for short visits from bigger hospitals go back inspired by the self-giving attitudes of the staff whom they met in a smaller hospital. The smaller mission hospital receives a periodic stimulus to stay encouraged and continue in their calling!

As this is a familiar and a workable model, I wonder whether it is a good time to form functional clusters of two or three mission hospitals who offer to stay complementary to each other. Even when the two or three mission hospitals are under the governance of different mission leaderships, a functional association is practical and offers a fraternal relationship. The geographical distance need not be a constraint. I know of a hospital in South India who spares consultants to visit mission hospitals in North India and North East India. I have come across retired consultants from teaching hospitals travelling long distance regularly to help small mission hospitals. 

I come back to the photos above of the guava fruits in the tree. Except a few guavas all were in clusters of two, three or four! It seems to me that solitary flowering or fruit bearing is less common. Being in clusters is more common. I know form the history of some mission hospitals that clustering connects the hospitals in diverse ways for the common good.

Will the bigger mission hospitals take a lead to form a cluster with one or two other smaller mission hospitals at a difficult time such as this! It is in giving we also receive! 

Our giving might be little from our perspective, but it is given in love to affirm and upbuild! So, it has the prospect of becoming a timely help and blessing! I overhear some conversation between hospitals in this regard. Let them come to fruition.  

You might be in your place for a ‘time such as this’! Anna and I carry you in our thoughts !                               


M.C.Mathew, 18. 5.2020

Friends in Christian Mission Hospitals-4

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Dear Friends,
Greetings





This is a season of flowers and fruits in our garden. Every time I walk in the garden, I feel refreshed by this annual feature in each of these trees. For about eight months, these trees remain with leaves, but at an opportune time when the temperature, humidity and other conditions favour them, they bear flowers and later fruits. The trees give away their fruits for birds of the air and for humans. The pulp of the fruits feed us and the seeds in the fruits have the potential to become saplings and trees later. 

Yesterday, I heard from a family who has been to a mission Hospital in central India recently, following a serious infective condition to their child, while they were on their travel during a holiday. From the time they were in the emergency section of the hospital, the family felt cared for. They came to the hospital travelling in the midnight. The first gesture the family felt touched by, was the concern for their needs. They were provided with food and made to rest, while the child was admitted to the intensive care. Every hour or so someone would come to the room to give them some news about the child. The family did not have enough money as they were travelling. The hospital did not insist on a deposit on admission and indicated that they could pay later. Although it took more than 24 hours for the child to settle down, be free of convulsion and regain consciousness, the medical team kept meeting the family to share the news of progress. 

This family had no contact with this hospital earlier and they knew none before. After seven days, when they were leaving the hospital, the hospital arranged for a pass for the family to travel through a hot spot of COVID 19. The hospital gave a contact number to go to another mission hospital on their way back home in case they needed any help. The doctor telephoned them every day to check with the progress of the child till they reached their home-town and got in touch with their regular paediatrician.  This state government officer called me to say that the mission hospital he visited gave him a new experience about hospitality and care. The personal concern and thoughtfulness touched him deeply. 

It was his first experience in a mission hospital. He transferred the hospital expenses to the hospital account after arriving at home in Kerala. The hospital sent him an e-mail and a  get-well card for their son. 

As I heard this narration I was moved. Each mission hospital is like the trees in our garden which give away its fruits freely and lavishly.

At this time, when the mission hospitals are through a difficult time due to the pressures coming upon you due to COVID 19, Anna and I want to send you our greetings, regards and wishes. May each of you be well, and receive strength and grace for each day. 

Amidst the challenges and opportunities, may you experience peace and encouragement! All of you remain in our thoughts. With regards, 

M.C.Mathew, 14.5.2010

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Dear Friends,
Greetings                                                                                                                                     8 May 2020








I kept watching this bird, a jungle Babbler, normally resident in our garden. It kept moving towards   the edge of the trunk and finally perched itself at the edge, balancing well and having a 360 degree view of the garden. In this movement, it did lose its balance a few times and but kept repositioning itself safely! For a bird such an adventure is normal and has an easy access to rescue itself from a fall because it has a pair of wings which is the source of its security. To be stationed at the edge is difficult  

When I watched video clip of a long queue of people in New York a few days ago, waiting to collect free supply of food, I could not but recall, all that I had read about the great depression of 1930. People seemed to have spent the next five years or so, struggling to live!

I have had replies from some of you about the adjustments all of you are making to keep the mission hospitals alive to the new realities that have come upon us due to the corona virus infection. What I sensed is that the regular attendance for the outpatient service has declined and it does cause a concern to you about two issues. Is it because of financial constraints that people are not coming! If so, how do they take care of their health needs!

A priest who dropped in to greet me referred to the present financial stress and recalled what his father had told him a few times about the ‘one handful rice’ story that they practiced during the great depression. Every family kept away a handful of rice each time they cooked rice, in a separate container, which they brought to the church once a month. The rice thus collected was distributed among those who needed to be taken care of. This was practiced widely in southern India, North East states and few other places. The priest mentioned that least 100 families in their neighbourhood lived from this provision for three years. 

The story of Elijah (1Kings 17;1-16) getting fed at Cherith by the ravens at the brook, after predicting a famine, might have a message for us now. When the ravens stopped arriving and the brook dried up, Elijah was guided to go to Zarephath, where a widow, who only had ‘a handful of flour in the bowl and a little oil in the jar’(v 12) would be his provider. Through the season of famine, the ‘flour was not exhausted nor did the jar of oil become empty (v16) following her willingness to offer food for Elijah.

It is when we become willing and ready to be mindful of others amidst us, the little resources left with us, becomes enough and more for us and others. Yesterday a stranger telephoned to say that he would make a regular contribution to the department, where I work, to help those who are disadvantaged. 

May we be guided to find our sufficiency in God, in each other and in the prospects of our resources becoming sufficient in difficult times, because they would last longer under God!  

M.C.Mathew 

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                                                                                                                                 24.4.2020


Dear Friends, 


I gathered the above flowers, from our garden and placed them in a vase a little while ago, to present it to all of you, whom I write this letter. These flowers survived the heat of 37 degree Celsius for two consecutive days. The flowers are drooping following the heat, but still fragrant and colourful. Let me begin my letter with this belief that, amidst the intensity of pressure due to COVID 19 pandemic, all of you who live, work and lead the different Christian Hospitals in India are an aroma and hope for the communities you serve. 

I have been in touch with some of you recently to bring greetings from Anna and myself.  Thank you for your replies. From what you wrote there is an anxiety about how the next few months would turn out for the mission hospitals. With the income having gone down and many mission hospitals not having enough reserve, the payment of salary would be difficult from now on. With people displaced from their work and sources of income badly hit, they would find it difficult to pay hospital bills, when they fall sick. You would want to offer them utmost help at a time such as this, when they are in desperate need. It is not the well to do who often come to your hospitals, but those who live in the margins of the society. The hospital staff depend on the hospital income and might not have any other source of income. Some of the hospitals might be able to manage a few months, but not indefinitely. The present indication is that even after the first wave of infection is brought under control, there might be another wave in the winter months.

At this time of such an intense dilemma and challenge about meeting the existential needs, Anna and I want to remember you in our thoughts and carry you in our hearts. We pray that you would feel the nearness of God and find in Him strength and grace to act thoughtfully and discerningly.

Let the fragrant and colourful flowers in the vase above, bring to you a message of endurance and resilience, even when it is made to suffer the scorching heat of the day! With regards and good wishes,

M.C.Mathew