17 May, 2026

The mutual education !






These photos of June 2019, when Dulcie was around two years of age, bring back memories of her socialisation intent. She would be comfortable with only few visitors. One of the visitors above was familiar with dogs and their habits and was able to develop a comfortable communication. It was following that,  others in the group felt comfortable to reach out to Dulcie. 

Dulcie now nearing nine years is charming and entertaining, and is comfortable with most visitors. She recognises who are dog friendly and others who are cautious and relates to them correspondingly. 

Anna and I have been surprised by her variable behaviour to suit the comfort zone of those who are not so dog friendly! 

Among twenty families in our neighbourhood, four families keep dogs. 

One family has a board outside on the gate, 'Beware of dog'! I found that message disturbing! To me that board announces a caution only to reinforce a false belief that dogs bite! The two dogs which they keep are generally friendly dogs! 

From our experiences with five dogs over the last thirty five years, we have an impression that humans contribute to form the behaviour of domestic dogs. Most pet dogs have a temperament which can be modulated by our behaviour and training to regulate social their skills. This has a benefit in return to us. We get more even tempered in behaviour. 

We have become familiar with dog habits to some extent that the variable looks of Dulcie can indicate her unspoken need. Her response to our questions is often clear and indicative of her needs. 

With Dulcie and Daphne, Anna and I have got educated about dog habits and needs to some extent! They occupy a space in the routines of our day!

I wish more families would become dog friendly!


M.C.Mathew(text and photo)




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