I continue to be fascinated by the several traditions associated with weddings. One of them is the practice of having best men.
At a recent wedding, I heard one of the best men speak about his association with the bridegroom for sometime which have been a mutually upbuilding relationship. He spoke about how they learn from each other and influence each other reciprocally. This relationship seems to have a formative influence on both of them.
All married men require a men's group to whom they can belong to share and feel connected as they transform themselves form being bachelors to be husbands and fathers. The transition from being a bachelor to multiple roles in family life takes place over a period of time for which a group of wise men can contribute immensely.
The 'best' men therefore are not just a traditional appendage to every wedding but also a valuable addition to the family formation process. It is this group of men who commit themselves to stay supportive for the marriage to become a fruitful union over period of time!
The best men offers such a prospect!
M.C.Mathew(text and photo)
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