
It was towards the end stage of its decay, I noticed a bush grass hopper on a petal. As the shrivelling of the petals started from the periphery and moved on to the centre, it did indicate the possibility of toxins of one or more insects causing this damage.
The bush grasshopper looked too small to be using this !
Whatever might be responsible for the premature decay of the flower, what is evident is the susceptibility of a flower to adverse situations.
The mid childhood is a time when a child would normally feel even more drawn towards his or her family! But the opposite can also happen when the home environment and parenting presence do not provide the adequate support and protection. That is when a child can get enticed by unfortunate temptations!
The flower above did not have its normal life span!
The conversations I hear from some parents is the additional layer of protection that they offer to their children during mid childhood by engaging them in play, being read to, creating conversation times at home, promoting hobbies of interest and expressions of thoughts and ideas in different art forms and choices!
The mid childhood prior to the teenage transition is an opportunity to endow children with wise options and healthy choices!
When a child in mid-childhood feels the protection of parenting presence, then he or she would feel grounded in the wellness of the home!
M.C.Mathew(text and photo)